Showing posts with label day in the life. Show all posts
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Spring Update

 

To Spring by William Blake

O Thou with dewy locks, who lookest down
Through the clear windows of the morning, turn
Thine angel eyes upon our western isle,
Which in full choir hails thy approach, O Spring!

The hills tell one another, and the listening
Valleys hear; all our longing eyes are turn'd
Up to thy bright pavilions: issue forth
And let thy holy feet visit our clime!

Come o'er the eastern hills, and let our winds
Kiss thy perfumed garments; let us taste
Thy morn and evening breath; scatter thy pearls
Upon our lovesick land that mourns for thee.

O deck her forth with thy fair fingers; pour
Thy soft kisses on her bosom; and put
Thy golden crown upon her languish'd head,
Whose modest tresses are bound up for thee.

It has been a long time since I gave any kind of update around here. This time of year has me raring to get started on too many projects! But first, a look back at the last few months:

Homeschool Day with Ages 10, 9, 6, 2, and a Baby

Welcome to my annual recording of a somewhat average day in our homeschool! I love getting a peek into the many ways different families make homeschooling work for them. So I will be linking up and reading every single entry on Simple Homeschool's Day in the Life link up and I'm also linking up with Rosie. 

Things are hard this winter (every winter?!?!?). I feel like I emerged from postpartum recovery and baby blues to a busy Christmas followed by pandemic fatigue. And as much as I try to shield them from worries and cares, my kids are more stressed out too. And with so much indoor time and monotony, there has been more sibling conflict and acting out in other ways too.

So in the last month or so, we have really been doubling down on connection and good habits for everyone in the family. All this is just to say that as today unfolded I could see that it went well because of the work we have been putting in. Some other days this week and month did not go nearly as well! So if your days happen to be very difficult right now, I can relate and I hope you can get some relief soon. It isn't always easy to see a path to easier, harmonious days, but I believe it is usually possible to find some way to move forward. 

As for us, my husband and I are refocused on positive parenting and working through Dr. Laura Markham's Peaceful parenting course (not an affiliate link ;-)). It is helping all of us deal with big feelings during a difficult year.

This day finds us 4 days into our third 12-week term, just after a full week off which was preceded by an exam week, so we are getting back into the swing of things. 

Charlotte Mason Homeschooling Day with ages 9, 8, 5, and 1-year old

There are so many ways to homeschool! It is freeing (and just a tiny bit terrifying) to me that there are so many "right" ways to do this job for our unique situations. That is why I love reading homeschool day-in-the-life posts.

Every year, Simple Homeschool's linkup leaves me inspired and encouraged (and usually with a few more books on my want-to-read list). I hope you enjoy our  2020 day in our homeschooling life! Past years are here: 2019 and 2018.

Homeschool Break Week Snapshot

As many homeschooling families I know are gearing up for their first day of school and our public school friends are settling into their new school routines, my family, well, we are thrilled to be taking a little rest and enjoying a slower pace of life during our much-loved break week!!!!

In our homeschool, a break week means we have already logged another 30+ days toward our required 180. And it usually marks the halfway mark or end of one of our 3 terms. It is a time to reset and regroup and it gives each member of the family the extra time that we crave to go deeper into our interests.

Break week is also a time for me to schedule field trips and doctor's appointments and time outside with friends so that it won't feel like one extra thing heaped on our already full schedules (i.e. if the baby misses his nap, I won't lose my mind). Here is a brief snapshot of how we are using this break week to the fullest.

Our Homeschooling Day with Ages 8, 6, 4, and Baby

This has been quite a different year in our homeschool since I documented our day last year. A new baby in May and two kids doing lessons instead of only one has stretched me in a lot of ways. This is how our days are looking lately.

6:30 AM

I wake to the sounds of twittering birds. It is actually quite a peaceful way to wake up. It sure beats the blaring alarm clock I used for many years in high school, college, and graduate school. I only wish my husband would have suggested this phone alarm sound years ago.

I nurse the baby in bed with me and then he goes to Daddy who dressed him and then returns him for another nursing session if needed before taking him to the kitchen to get breakfast ready. On the way out the door, he tosses me my watch so I can't ignore the time. Can you tell I'm having a hard time waking up these days?

Homeschooling Week 6: We need a break!


I'm tired. Homeschooling two kids with a baby and a preschooler has been stretching my patience and my abilities.

I'm also a little down with a case of the baby blues. Plus I'm mourning with a dear friend who is walking through some very sad times. Also, too much humidity and too much time indoors brings out some character flaws in all of us.

Fortunately, I remember I've felt like this before. Every time I have a baby and they are a few months old, I find myself secretly wishing that I could walk out the door of my messy house and never see it again!

But this time with baby #4, it just seems a little more intense. I'm not getting outside enough or taking enough showers. And I'm having a more difficult time not comparing my weaknesses to other people's strengths! The crafting abilities, nature time, blogging, home-cooked meals, and the pleasant attitude of other mothers, even mothers with more children than me, seems to be far out-shining my homemaking abilities in this season of life.

But just when I feel like I'm losing my mind . . . it is break week!

I've planned out our homeschooling year in a pattern with six weeks on, followed by 1-2 week breaks. This year we are even taking a 3-week break to allow for a road trip vacation to Florida in February.

We all love our break weeks. It gives me the time and mental space to tackle home organization projects. It allows me to schedule doctor appointments without crowding out lesson time. And it gives us whole days to spend at state parks, or meet up with friends or attend a field trip.

Today, the kids and I escaped to a state park while my husband went to work since he didn't have off for the holiday. It felt impossible to get out the door, but when we finally arrived a the park, I could feel layers of stress peeling off.

We did a little hike together. And no one complained! We worked on a nature scavenger hunt together until the vicious biting flies and mosquitoes drove me back to the beach. A monarch butterfly landed on my son's face. He was ecstatic and realized how special it was. "You could go your whole life living outside and never have that happen to you!" he said.

In the restorative environment of nature, all of my crazy thoughts were put into perspective.

I'd been telling myself that I was failing at getting the kids outside. But really, we've had truly wonderful experiences each week--from seeing a monarch we raised emerge from a chrysalis to finding a "treadmill of grasshoppers" (aka a lot of grasshoppers hopping away from us as we walk) to hiking outside in a downpour and then swimming in a swollen creek with friends. And we started soccer season!

I'd been telling myself I was failing at my duties regarding meals and food preservation. But really, we've been sharing what we are thankful for each night, eating produce from our own garden most days, and I've even gotten back into baking all of our bread. I'm not going to do ANY canning this year, but I have been freezing peppers and I will make sauerkraut in the fall, for sure.

I'd been telling myself that I was failing to model handwork to the kids and instead vegging out in front of the computer watching Netflix after the preschooler goes to bed. This part is true. But the kids have been working on their handicrafts each week and I've been faithfully painting alongside them during lessons and adding to my own nature journal. We've also instituted a new family sharing time of our work each week which has been meaningful for all of us.

So, surprise! I'm still a work in progress :-)

So this break week, you'll find us doing a few things that look like school: morning time, piano practice, maybe a little math (child-led) and reading (for my emerging reader).

But you'll also find me tackling some to-dos like doctor appointments for me and the baby, creating a list of 5-minute chores to add into our morning routine to keep this house a little more under control, and setting my goals for the next chunk of homeschooling + breaks weeks. I also hope to spend more time outside myself and find time to write a few blog posts that have been on my mind.

Finally, we have made room for special fun like a sleepover for the boys at their grandma's house and attending a not-back-to-school party with our local homeschool group.

I know I won't get everything done, because I never do. But hopefully, it will be just the breather we need to enjoy another 6-weeks of reading and learning and growing!

Do you take weeks off in your homeschool? How do you try to make the most of them?

Homeschooling Week 1: Plans vs Reality


I pride myself on being a fairly realistic planner, so I knew that our first week of homeschooling this year was going to be difficult and challenging for all of us.

For, Peter, my 8-year-old, it would be a very similar schedule to last year, but new books and new challenges to tackle. Plus he had just had a few months off to forget both some content (like spelling rules) and the way we do things (set up for watercolor painting).

In addition, I had completely retooled our afternoons to create more space for "afternoon occupations," basically all the individual work which needed to happen outside of lesson time, including piano practice, drawing practice, and additional handicraft work.

Also, this was the first year I was officially adding John (6) to the mix of lessons. While Peter was already reading fluently when we began following the Charlotte Mason method, John is still very early on the journey to reading, so besides reading all of his lessons to him, we would be starting consistent reading lessons in earnest this week.

Finally, I'm not only homeschooling a 6-year-old and 8-year-old, but also caring for and parenting an almost 4-year-old and an infant, not yet 3 months old.

My plate was full, but everyone was excited and optimistic to begin.

I expected some whining; I expected barely coherent narrations; I expected some chaos. And the first day, we had all that.

But I didn't expect that in the middle of the night after our first day that excessive rain was going to flood our basement with almost 1 foot of water!!!!

Yikes!

This week has been exhausting. From hauling up bins of clothes from the basement in the middle of the night with flashlights to transporting all our frozen food out of the freezer to drying out and testing appliances (I think we only lost the dehumidifier!) to running dishwasher load after dishwasher load of jars and various containers that came in contact with the water, I have been busy. And my husband has been hard at work hauling out anything to be salvaged or trashed and to powerwash and disinfect everything else.

It wasn't the ideal back to school week. However, in the middle of Monday night, with water still pouring into our basement, I asked my husband, "Should we still do lessons in the morning?" And we both agreed that the show could and should go on.

I was glad that we could keep our momentum going and honestly, it gave us something to focus on while the water went back down. Plus, there wasn't much that the kids could do to help at that point.

I also asked for help and got some. A few area mom-friends carried away the few bins of clothes that did get damp to wash and return. And I had already planned simple crockpot meals for the week to help with the back-to-school transition.

So here is my assessment of what went well this week as well as what changes I'll make after seeing how my plans (1st Grade Plans & 3rd Grade Plans) played out in our real world homeschool this week.

What worked


Almost all the important things. Our strict schedule of lessons worked really well for the most part. My idea for a dedicated time in the afternoon with a restricted menu of options for the boys to choose from resulted in so much more creativity AND piano lessons getting done early in the day.

What needs adjustment


My reading lessons are not working as well as I would like. Basically, I didn't follow my own plan. I fully intended on following the procedures in Teach a Child To Read with Children's Books: Combining Story Reading, Phonics, and Writing To Promote Reading Success. by Mark B. Thogmartin, but I didn't.

There has been too much talky-talky (by me) and teaching words out of context, even though I've tried to keep it fun. I need to stick to the plan this week and see it if goes better.

Somehow, I thought I could do reading lessons with John (6) while Peter (8) did math. In this way, I could do one son's most demanding lesson while the other son did his favorite lesson.

This was a terrible idea that did not work for us!

Teaching reading is both intense and important. And my son who loves math does hard math for his young years, so when he gets stuck, he needs support. They both need me! Fortunately, because we start lessons early at 8:15 am, my husband is going to be able to take over my son's math lesson twice a week. Two other times a week, I'll have my youngest son working with Cuisenaire rods at the table during the 8-year-old's math lesson and once a week, they will both use Cuisenaire rods at the same time.

Finally, as I mentioned, I'm loving our new afternoon occupation time block, but I have to tweak it. You see, this summer we reintroduced "rest time" where everyone went to separate rooms and did something quiet for an hour. The 3-year-old starting napping regularly again and everyone had more patience, including me.

My idea for afternoon occupations was that it would replace this rest time and run from 1-3 every day. After seeing how crabby we all were and facing the difficulties of getting an almost four-year-old to have quiet time when everyone else is not resting, I knew it wasn't working despite how much I love it.

This week, we are going to shoot for having a shorter block of time that starts earlier. So 12:30-2pm is for afternoon occupations and 2-3 is for rest time. Then from 3pm until dinner can be for chores and more outside time and free time.

I'll let you know how it goes!

Homeschooling Day with 7-,6- and 3-Year Old

I love reading day in the life posts, especially homeschooling day in the life ones. So I'm very excited that I finally get to share my very own version. I even rolled a die to help me choose a random day in a normal week. Since I rolled a "3," I chose to chronicle a pretty typical Wednesday in our homeschooling routine and I gave a lot of details, which is what I most enjoy about these posts!

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6:50 - My husband wakes me up and tells me that it is 6:50 which means we slept in a little late and he gets up. I was out last night until after 9 at a Charlotte Mason Reading Group that I recently started. I had so much fun but I came home so wired that I couldn't go to bed at my normal time before 10. Instead, we both stayed up until 11pm and I still had a hard time falling asleep. So we are little tired and behind schedule.

6:53 - I get up, get dressed, and start getting a load of laundry together to put in before breakfast. Most mornings I get up in enough time to check my email, schedule, and weather before I go to wake the kids, but today is not that day.

7:03 - I go into the room my 3 kids share and start our morning routine which involves me going to each child one by one and saying good morning, and giving hugs and kisses. Then I comb and pull back the 3-year-old's hair. Today, she had a new brush that she was excited to use, but instead of acting happy, she threw it out the bedroom door and said she hated it. This is a new phase we are going through lately. So I just say, fine. Do you want me to comb your hair with the old brush? I comb it and she gets dressed. She goes outside and gets the new brush and we use it a little and put it in her drawer. Meanwhile, the boys get dressed and head to the kitchen table. I add their dirty clothes to my basket and take it downstairs and start the washing machine.

7:15 - We are at the breakfast table and we sit down to breakfast prepped by my husband. Today we are having leftover homemade waffles that he made yesterday morning and then just toasted in the oven to warm them up.

I start our morning time which always begins with a poem. We read the same poem every day for a week and then choose a new one. Today we are reading, Daddy Fell Into the Pond by Alfred Noyes. We just finished a bunch of William Blake and this is the poem that my just turned 6-year-old picked to memorize for our poetry tea.

As soon as I start reading, my husband tries to stop the 3-year-old from dumping a very hearty serving of syrup on her waffle and she bursts into screaming tears. That phase again. His huge contribution to a peaceful morning time is dealing with her needs so as not to interrupt the rest of our morning time enjoyment, so he whisks her off rapidly into another room for her to calm down a little because we don't allow screaming and crying at the table, although we certainly try not to make anyone feel bad about it.

I restart the poem and by the time I am finishing it, she is back climbing into her seat with just a few sniffles. Our morning time goes like this today, reading one story or a few pages from each book.

Aesop for Children (narrated by the new 6-year-old)
trans card from English from the Roots Up Flashcards
The Gift from a Sheep: The Story of How Wool is Made
Harry Potter and the Chamber of Secrets
Normally, we do a few pages from a few more books, but today the boys beg to read a chapter of Harry Potter because we've been finding it hard to find the time to read this "extra" book and they want to know what is going to happen. After we started Harry Potter, the 3-year-old wandered off into the front room and we can hear her playing and building with magnetic tiles.

8:00 - Since we read a whole chapter of Harry Potter, morning time lasts a bit longer than usual and we aren't done until now. We are just running a little slowly today.

The kids scatter off to play. The 6-year-old begins to work with his new snap circuits rover and the 7-year-old uncharacteristically decides to build a 200 piece puzzle of the U.S. He hasn't done any puzzle in recent memory, but he dives right in. I change the laundry to the dryer and hop on my computer to do a few things before we start lessons.

I check my email and rsvp to a maple sugaring field trip on our local homeschooling group's meetup page and I do a few admin tasks on meetup. I read my rss feed, including one with all the new books at our library. I see something I think we might like to read at morning time. It is a new book about a day in the life of children around the world , so I put in a request for the library to hold it for me.

8:20 - This is when I normally start lessons, but since my mother-in-law has decided to take the 3-year-old to library story time today and pick her up around 8:30, I decide to do wait until she leaves to start lessons. I make a to-do list for the day and review my weekly plan.

8:35 - My husband waits until the 3-year-old is picked up to run out to the store for eggs and I call my 7-year-old 2nd grader to come in and start lessons. Of course, he would rather work on his puzzle, but we are starting! We do a slightly different schedule each day to allow for lots of different short lessons split up into varied arrangements. Today our lessons schedule looks like this:

Number (30min)
Reading (20min)
Natural History (10min)
Break (15min)
Recitation (10min)
Special Study (20min)
History (30min)
Every other day of the week we do 30 minutes of math work in Beast Academy. On Wednesdays, however, we are working through Gattegno's Textbook 1 using Cuisenaire rods. I have just started learning about Gattengo's methods this year and I still have a lot to learn, but I can already see how working with this method can lead to a much deeper understanding of numbers and mathematical operations. My 2nd grader is a very mathematical child so he loves playing with numbers in this way and I may use this method more predominantly with my 2nd child.

While we explore the number 7, my 6-year-old plays with another set of the rods across from us. He uses color markers to make a "key" for decoding unit values of the rods. He just turned 6 last week and I am not starting formal lessons with him until he beings first grade in our homeschool this summer. Instead, he works on his own projects and interests and joins us when he is interested.

I just realized how much he and the 3-year-old have been playing together during our morning lessons as he is interacting with me and interrupting me more than normal because she isn't here!

My husband drops off the eggs, says good-bye to us all and leaves for his work, which is a 5-minute bike ride away.

As our 30 minutes of math time is drawing to a close, we stop our work and I ask my son for a narration of what he has learned. The only narrations I write down for him are his math narrations and the rest I take orally. Today we get:
Made the pattern for 7 and reviewed that when you are making a pattern you can find whether it is odd or even by looking at the row of reds and a whte rod and if it's a row with all 2's it's even and if it's a row with all 2's except for one white than it is odd.
Next, is reading. Today is he is reading from The King of the Golden River by John Ruskin. Normally, I listen to him read aloud for about 5 minutes, but because we are doing the Read Aloud Revival's annual read aloud challenge, I listen for 10 minutes and then he reads the rest silently. I stop him before 20 minutes is up so he has time to narrate the reading. While he is reading, his brother is playing close to us with a magnetic fishing game.

Next is natural history. He reads the next chapter in The Burgess Animal Book, in which Peter Rabbit meets a woodchuck, and then narrates it to me. This is one of the several titles he reads on my tablet. I would prefer to use physical books, but using ebooks that are available for free in the public domain keeps homeschooling costs down.



Then we set a timer for a 15-minute break. While he was finishing his reading, reading his natural history, and having his break, I have been completing my daily searches on Microsoft Rewards and sending an email to the Charlotte Mason reading group about our next meeting and linking to as many of the resources we discussed last night as I can remember. I also post the next meeting details to our homeschooling meetup group.

During his break, the 7-year-old has been working on his puzzle, while his brother plays with his snap circuits rover.

9:15 -When the break timer goes off, my son stops it and resets it for 10 minutes. It is time for recitation, which means he will spend the next 10 minutes working on reciting beautifully (usually works out to memorizing) one of the three pieces he is working on during this 6-week-period. Today is his day to work on his passage, which is the first 5 Amendments to the U.S. Constitution.

When that timer goes off, he moves onto his special study time. He is studying animals and today I tell him to read from America's Backyard Wildlife. I haven't planned out his readings beforehand in this subject to give us some flexibility. Instead, I have him read this book or library books on animals that I have selected. Today, I direct him to the chapter on groundhogs because he had just read about woodchucks during Natural History, and I could tell that he did not know that woodchucks and groundhogs are the same animals.

During this time, the 6-year-old has asked to work on Khan Academy, which is something he asks to do from time to time. Because he cannot read, he lacks confidence doing some of the math problems so I help him decipher some of the pages. I also grab time while the 7-year-old is reading to bring up the dried laundry.

7-year-old narrates to me about the groundhog chapter and moves onto history. Recently, he has been learning about colonial NewEngland, so today he is reading a few pages from Colonial Living. Meanwhile, I make piles of the boys' laundry in their room for them to put away and I put away everyone else's clothes.

He finishes the reading and lets me know. Last time he read from this book, he said he couldn't narrate from it. I suggested that with this book, we just look at the detailed illustrations together and he could explain what they are to me as his narration. This has worked better than having him try to tell it back to me another way. With most of the history readings, we do mapwork that I have keyed to the readings, but I did not choose any for this book.

10:35 - We are done lessons for the day. The 7-year-old helps the 6-year-old change his avatar on Khan Academy and then he goes back to his puzzle while the 6-year-old clears up some of the toy messes that have happened. This pregnant lady is starving, so I eat a can of sardines over the sink and finish making a make-ahead crockpot freezer meal that I started working on yesterday.

The 6-year-old asks me to play "the monster game" with him, which involves me sitting on the couch pretend-shooting at various monsters that he performs coming towards me. It is part video game parody, part modern dance performance, and part fairy tale theater. Playing this game with him is his love language, especially when no other siblings interrupt, so I buckle down and try to keep my attention on him. He could play this for an hour I think. I resolve to do at least 10 minutes.

11:15 - We just finish up when the doorbell rings. The 3-year-old is back. We welcome her and hear about story time. I read her a picture book and we reconnect a little. Then, I get off the couch and put some eggs on to hard boil.

The kids see the eggs and ask if they can have scrambled eggs for lunch, which is a very rare treat. Usually, they just have an open-faced sandwich of peanut butter and/or cheese. I ask who wants to make the eggs and they are enthusiastic that all of them want to make the eggs. So I ask them to tell me what they'll need and they can do it themselves . . . but no fighting or screaming! Everyone can take turns!!!

They work together really well (this time), cracking eggs, turning on the stove, and cooking the eggs in the pan with a little help. Meanwhile, I am toasting bread in the oven and setting out a piece of fruit for each child and putting out water bottles on the table.

11:45 - We sit down for lunch. While they eat, I read from our lunch books. We read from two each day because we all like the variety. I usually read a chapter or half a chapter from each book. If I start to lose everyone, we just stop there for the day, although I try to keep them at the table until I finish. Right now we are reading The Rise and Fall of Mount Majestic and The Cat of Bubastes by G.A. Henty.

Our reading is cut a little short today because someone needs to use the bathroom and it is going to take awhile. I finish up my lunch of eggs topped with homemade kimchi. Everyone puts their dishes in the dishwasher and I start it.

12:35 - I tell everyone to get their shoes and coats on so we can make a visit to the indoor track at the university where my husband works. One of the benefits of working there is that his spouse and dependents can use the sports facilities and we are finally taking advantage of the indoor track this winter to get out some energy and get some small exercise for me while the temperatures are in the 30s or below. We get here 1-3x a week.

The 3-year-old and I manage 4 laps, the 7-year-old runs or skips 6 laps, and the 6-year-old runs a few laps very fast and watches a student practice batting inside a net cage. On the way out, I run into a friend who also works at the university. The 3-year-old just stepped wrong off a curb and is crying because she hurt herself. Somehow my friend and I still manage to make tentative plans to attend a free exhibit opening at the university gallery on Saturday night.

1:11 - We make it back home. The 3-year-old has finally stopped whimpering from her fall and we cuddle up on the couch along with the 6-year-old to read together. The 7-year-old listens while he works on finishing his puzzle.



1:50 - We're done reading for the time being and the 7-year-old has finished his puzzle. Very soon after, the 3-year-old dismantles it and starts to clean it up. The 7-year-old is not happy about this, but we survive. He moves onto to practice piano, the other kids play at the table with slime that the 6-year-old got for his birthday last week. I get some potatoes from the basement and vow it is my last trip downstairs because I am feeling very tired. I chop an onion and some carrots and put them in a pot to be ready for when I start dinner.

2:30 - I lay down on the couch because this pregnancy is really tiring me out and email my husband back and forth about a few things, including Ursula Le Guin's death which we just heard about. He had recently read the kids The Wizard of Earthsea and was reading the rest of the series himself. I've also been reading her more recent works, so we were both saddened to hear this news.

The 3-year-old is playing with the cassette player then puts on some pajamas because she loves outfit changes. The boys unload the dishwasher together. At some point, they put away their clean clothes too. The 6-year-old takes over the cassette player and records himself saying toilet over and over. The 7-year-old goes outside to find something to record in his nature journal for today. He doesn't feel like working on his nature journal and tells me about it. We talk it over, but I remind him that it is the day for it.

He comes back in to ask how to fill the bird feeder and eventually, the 6-year-old goes out to help him with it. The 3-year-old goes out for a few minutes in pjs. I'm still resting on the couch.

3:30 - I get up off the couch to turn on the stove to begin making chicken soup with chicken leftover from Monday and some of the broth simmering in the crockpot. I start some rice in the rice cooker for breakfast tomorrow of rice and eggs. The kids are back inside working on various projects.

The 7-year-old is working on making a page in his nature journal, which is something on his schedule every Wednesday. He draws a picture of a groundhog in pencil, looks up the scientific name for groundhog and I transcribe the information he wants to include about groundhogs. Then he tells me some things he has noticed or wondered about which I add to the page.


The 6-year-old is working with an egg carton and cardboard he got out of the recycling bin and the 3-year-old is playing with some new stickers someone passed down to us. She gets out some walnuts and almonds for a snack. The 6-year-old starts working on drawing a map of our neighborhood. The 7-year-old has finished all of his tasks for the day and as it is after 3pm, he is free to read. He is off in his room reading a Murderous Maths book which he has already read several times.



4:15 - The soup is simmering and everyone helps tidy up a bit before we sit down to read more Harry Potter.

4:35 - We read until Daddy gets home. The kids hide when they hear him and then scream boo when he comes in. The 6-year-old fills the water bottles that need filling for all of the family members (not without a little complaining). The 3-year-old puts regular "day clothes" back on for dinner.

4:45 - We sit down at the table, light our candles, and say what we are thankful for today. Boys are thankful for 2 chapters of Harry Potter!

5:10 - Dinner is already over and boys are helping each other learn string games.

I am pretty tired and could use some downtime, so I go into my room with my computer to zero my inbox and zone out a little. I decide to start working on the map work for Marco Polo which will be my 7-year-olds geography reading next year. Normally, I wouldn't be working so far ahead with planning but I'm anticipating having an infant in early May and I'm not good at computer work with a new baby in the house, so I'm doing as much as I can now.

I can hear the kids playing with slime, building with a marble run, and playing around on the piano. My husband is helping them, letting the 3-year-old "read aloud" to him because she is doing the read aloud challenge this year too, and cleaning up after dinner.

6:15- I come out of my room and join the family before the 3-year-old's bedtime. Everyone decided to finish up soup they had leftover from dinner to have something else afterward. My husband handles all this, strains the kefir that I left on the counter and didn't get to, and gets a baked potato ready to put in the oven for me because I'm still hungry.

6:30 - The 3-year-olds bedtime alarm goes off on my husband's phone. She finishes up her frozen blueberries and milk and he helps her into her pjs. She says goodnight to me and picks a book for him to read to her. He is the one who puts the children to bed every night and it is a huge relief to me that he enjoys doing it because even when I am not pregnant, I am glad to be done before bedtime arrives.

7:00 - The boys get their pjs on and teeth brushed but don't have to go to bed yet. The 6-year-old still needs to do his read aloud, so he takes his baby doll into our bedroom to "read aloud" to the doll. He is the only child that prefers to do it this way. We can hear him talking, but otherwise don't listen in.

I am back to work on my Marco Polo mapwork with occasional breaks for reading blogs and my following my group text with a few college friends. Oddly enough, I only text on my computer via a free google voice number.

7:30 - The 6-year-old plays around a little bit and then comes to me for hugs and kisses before bed. Daddy takes him in and reads to him from the current nighttime read aloud, The Incorrigible Children of Ashton Place: The Mysterious Howling. The 7-year-old wanders in to complain to me about how they didn't get to read any more of Harry Potter because the 6-year-old needed to do his read aloud. I try to listen compassionately, but it is hard at this time of day. I tell him that I hear that he wants to read the book more and that after we finish this volume together, he can start reading the rest of the series alone. He doesn't want to wait and I don't want to hear any more complaining about it so I think we reach a compromise of minimal acceptance on his part.

He and his dad finish a game of Phase 10 they started last night, then he goes off to read more by himself.

8:30 - He says goodnight and dad puts him to bed, re-reading the same night book to him. I eat a baked potato and a bowl of cereal while finishing an episode of Shetland I started yesterday. My husband comes out and we finish the Shetland episode together.

9:15 - We are tired, so we head to bed early. I can see the 7-year-old's book light is on and he is still awake and reading.

Thus ends a pretty typical homeschool day in January. Once a week, the boys go to ice skating lessons during our normal early dinner time and once a week we have dinner at my mother-in-law's house. Almost every week my husband or I go out after dinner for meetings, trivia night, or just catching up with friends. Otherwise, we are used to our quiet evenings and early bedtimes for all. Typically we have a little less reading aloud, a few more games, and a couple more sibling squabbles. It was a pretty good day :-)